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Kim Shannon's avatar

I felt this article. I felt your vulnerability, empathy, and creativity. I also felt loneliness. It made me think about when I was young and the moment(s) that drove me to hide who I was in deference to who others wanted me to be. Safety was a key motivation, as was self-preservation. I appreciate you, Derek. Thanks for a thought-provoking read.

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olivia s's avatar

Thanks for the enjoyable read. It's the benefit of unlocking your creativity :). Loneliness is a funny thing. We feel uncomfortable when we have it. But when we're in a messy interaction (with a friend, colleague, or family member), we'd like to be alone.

I once visited a beautiful temple located between the ocean and the mountain. It's one of the tourist hotspots which is also advertised as 'the best temple to grant any of your wishes.'

As I stood there and took in the ocean view, I was tempted to make a wish: I'd like to cure my loneliness.

Then I had a second thought: What if, I can ask for the state of being care-less about loneliness? Then I'll stop bothering about it.

I was quickly brought back to reality because someone asked me to move, I was blocking them from taking a nice picture.

I made the 2nd wish instead.

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